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Entries in Gratitude (3)

Wednesday
Nov012017

Hey Leaders! You Have Just One Job.

Want to know the single, most important responsibility of a leader?
 
It’s easy to become overwhelmed just thinking about everything we, as leaders, should be doing. Becoming a better leader is easier said than done. Some people have given up trying because there is just too much to think about. But what if we distilled being a great leader down into just one thing?
 
I recently consulted my mate, Professor Google, about a couple of burning questions that I had. I typed in ‘definition of leadership’ - 280 million search results. I also searched ‘what do leaders do’ - 515 million search results. I have a bookcase in my office that is chock full of big, thick leadership and management texts. How did leadership become so complex?
 
Here’s the one thing that, if leaders focus on achieving, will make a massive difference. Make people better. This thinking was inspired by the 6th President of the USA, John Quincy Adams who said “If your actions inspire others to dream more, do more, learn more and become more, you are a leader.”
 
Think about this really important question. As a result of your leadership, are your people becoming more, are they remaining the same or have they become less? Sort of tragic if they are less then when they met you. Almost as sad if they have not changed as a result of your influence.
 
‘You manage things, you lead people” said US Navy Rear Admiral, Grace Hopper. It can’t be any simpler. Focus on helping your people grow and develop as your number one leadership priority. Do this, and everything else will fall into place, as it will be your people that will step up and, together with you, make your organisation successful.
 
You have one job. MAKE. PEOPLE. BETTER.

Tuesday
Dec272016

WHAT ARE YOU GRATEFUL FOR? NOW IS A GREAT TIME FOR THIS SIMPLE EXERCISE.

I strongly believe that our lives are better when we are more aware of those things in our life that we should be grateful for. In a busy, sometimes stressful world, a great way to do this is simple exercise where we list the positives in our lives followed by a short 'why'.

There are no hard and fast rules, but here is a format that works for me and the people I work with. Take a clean sheet of paper (or screen), write in the middle in a circle 'What I am grateful for'. Simple fill the page in other circles with the things that you appreciate in your life. For example ...

'What I am grateful for'

  • My family. Why? They love me and I love them.
  • My partner / wife / husband. Why? If we are lucky, they are our best friend and someone to share our life with.
  • My health. Why? Without it I can't be there for my family and live a full life.
  • My work. Why? It allows me to fulfill my life's purpose.
  • My friends. Why? They add value to my life and I add value to theirs.
  • Where I live. Why? It allows me to live the life I want to live.
  • The ability to make decisions about what kind of a life I have.

By the way, the exercise isn't over until you have done two more things.

  • Expressed thanks for each of the things that you are grateful for. Eg, tell you family you love them.
  • Identified what you need to change to have a better situation in some areas of your life.

This time of the year is a great time to reflect and take an hour to complete the exercise.

Wednesday
Dec142016

FOUR THINGS TO DO MORE OF IN 2017 (& SOME COOL LINKS)

 

Read / Listen - Audio book sales are growing at 40% per year. They are a great way to learn and grow productively. Get a free 30 day trial of Audible here. It's an app that you listen to audio books on.

BONUS TIP: Essentialism by Greg McKeown is the best book I've listened to in the last five years.

Sleep - there is strong evidence that we perform better when we are well rested. If you want to be at your best you must get enough sleep. Here is a great TED talk by Russell Foster on the importance of sleep.

Laugh - 'living lightly,' as Marty Wilson puts it, helps us build resilience and boost our mental health, Marty is a friend of mine, professional speaker and ex Australian Comic of the Year. In this TEDX talk he shares the wisdom he has gained from interviewing over 1,00 high achievers.

Meditate - I am amazed at the difference meditating for just 10 minutes each day makes to how productive I am. Calming the 'monkey mind' makes everything better. Calm is a great free app that guides your meditation practice. Check it out.

What good habits are you going to make in 2017?